Birthday Party

A to-DYE for Collab: Oh Happy Day x F&F Tie-Dye Treehouse Party!

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Oh, why hello there! It’s been a minute and I’ve definitely missed you all. In a short span of 2 months, I got engaged, married, and moved across to country to sunny Arizona! My socially distant party tutorials have gotten the shaft, but I trust that you have been having fabulous socially distant fun in the interim. Before my trifecta of life changes, I partnered up with Oh Happy Day to create the finale in my Party-in-Place tutorial series, and we settled on something very covid-friendly, awesome, and fashionably speaking.. all the rage: tie-dye! All the decor & tabletop items can be found in their Oh Happy Day Party Shop (linked below)!

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This party was extra special to me because I did it in Michigan with my nieces 2 days before we left for Arizona; and specifically for my 12 year old niece that had a shelter-in-place birthday parade in May during the peak of Michigan’s coronavirus prevalence. I am super close to my nieces, so it was extra special to leave on a very high note.

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Oh Happy Day has an awesome watercolor fans tutorial for white tissue decor that I followed with some small changes, and also added honeycombs and garlands to the mix.

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The original tutorial calls for India Ink to dye the fans, but I didn’t have any (and it’s $35) so I substituted that for good old Wilton Gel Food Colors and the results were pretty great! It’s a little more difficult to manipulate the colors with food coloring, but I wanted the tie-dye to be slightly muted. Vary the concentrations of your water/food coloring and the consistency of the stream on your spray bottles. In the end, use a more concentrated solutions and the stream mode (not spray or mist) to spray on some harsher lines to give it those quintessential tie-dye characteristics.

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To dye the honeycombs, open them up and just use a little scotch tape to keep them from closing (not the adhesive tabs they come with… save those for your actual event). Make sure you rotate them as you spray so that you don’t have a gap of white.

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Like the tutorial states, try to separate warm and cool colors so that they don’t mix and produce brown splotches and make your decor look dirty. After they partially dried, if I found white spots, I would add a contrasting color… a little blue on a warm palette, or a little pink on a cool palette, and I liked the variety that produced. Also be sure not to over spray, if your tissue gets too saturated, it will be more likely to rip. Alternate the settings of the spray bottles to get less uniform patterns, and be sure to partially dry your decor opened, and then close them for the remainder of the drying. The streamers are definitely harder to close, but with a little patience (and a second set of hands, if possible), it’s definitely doable.

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I love a contrasting backdrop for decor, so this rustic and foresty treehouse made for a great background for all the whimsical and lively colors. When placing your decor, stagger the heights of the honeycombs and fans, cluster various shapes and sizes, and avoid symmetry to give a more effortless and whimsical feel. Layer your garlands with contrasting textures… again, asymmetry is your friend here! With outdoor events, I love using decor with movement, like fringe and tassels.. it looks great when it catches the wind, and your pictures will look more lively!

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Now for the garbs. We bought the biker shorts sets from the kids section at Target: biker shorts ($5… a size XL fit me as a 0/2 and would probably fit up to a size 4!), and these boxy white t-shirts (I bought an XXL, size 18-20). We also found kids jogger sets on Zulily, but you can also check Amazon or Walmart. My sister and I also bought these Cat & Jack Bralettes (in XL), and they turned out SO cute! A sweatshirt + biker short combo would be very cute (and is probably in my near future to complete my set), and very model-off-duty-esque!

I love to live vicariously through my nieces whenever possible, and since I always wanted a treehouse growing up and my brother-in-law recently built one for the girls, so this ‘shehouse’ is where our party was based!

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We did our clumping and bunching inside the treehouse. For this step, you definitely want a LOT of rubber bands. Whatever you think you need… triple it!

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We more or less followed the WeWoreWhat Tie-Dye Tutorial because I liked that her final products were more subtle (we actually followed the video tutorial in her Instagram story highlights). The only minor differences is that we didn’t use bleach, and we rubber banded both sides. The more clumps and clusters you do, the better your patterns will turn out.

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We took the party down below the treehouse for the dyeing on top of a paper linen tablecloth. (my plan was to tie-dye this before the party and use on a table, but…I forgot!). The blue set we made with RIT Tropical Teal Dye , and the peachy blush/nude set was made with RIT Sandstone Dye. If you want white streaks in your creation, do not completely submerge in the dye solution, but submerge if you want a more monochromatic look. The spray bottles were from Walmart. Make sure you wear rubber gloves for this step, the dye will stain your hands!

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We decided this was going to be a family affair, and all present adults and grandparents got in on the action too!

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The 2” & 5” honeycombs were so tiny and cute that I decided to use them to top a plain white cake. The 2” balls are very delicate, so be sure not to saturate them when dying. The hot pink color pop “yay” was actually a straw from Target, but you can find a similar version here. The candles were technically “marbled”, but I thought they had a tie-dye look to them.

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Tie Dye Honeycomb Cake

This party is great option for covid-safe(r) fun because it is best done outdoors, and with gloves on! And trust me, most dyes will stain your hands, so you are going to want to use gloves!

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We tie-dyed on top of the OHD Paper Linen Tablecloth in white, and if you handle it carefully, you will end up with a sweet tie-dye tablecloth!

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All the decor & tabletop products from this setup are exclusively from the Oh Happy Day Party Shop! Click the links below; I have also itemized the quantities, sizes, and colors from the setup above! If you do this party, please share your pictures with me, or tag @feteandfinery on instagram!

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OH HAPPY DAY PARTY SHOP SUPPLIES

[White Tissue Decor for Dying]

Tissue Paper Fan 21" (Color: White, Pink, Mint Green)

Tissue Paper Fan Deluxe 27" (Color: White)

Honeycomb Diamond 12" (Color: 2x White, Mint Green, Light Blue)

Honeycomb Diamond 18" (Color: White)

Honeycomb Puff 14” (Color: Mint Green, Lavender)

Honeycomb Mini Balls 2" (Color: White - for cake topper)

Honeycomb Ball 5" (Color: White)

Honeycomb Ball 8" (Color: White)

Honeycomb Ball 12" (Color: White, Light Pink)

Honeycomb Ball 19" (Color: Mint Green)

[Garlands]

Full Garland (Color: White)

Bunting Fan Garland (Color: White)

Streamer Garland (Color: Mint)

Festive Festooning (Color: Light Blue)

Criss Cross Garland (Color: Lavender)

Paper Fringe Garland (Color: Light Pink)

[Tabletop]

Marbled Candles (Color: Mint)

Oh Happy Day Pink Marble Plates (Small) (Color: Pink Marble)

Oh Happy Day Ombre Cups (color: Sky)

Paper Linen Tablecloths (Color: White)

Tropical Ombre Wooden Cutlery (Color: Tropical Ombre)

Ombre Napkins, Small (Color: Multicolor)

To see more socially distant Party-in-Place tutorials, click the images below:

Fiesta, fiesta! [Your Birthdate...en español] de Mayo!

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Happy Cinco de Mayo (eve)! I’m sure we would all love to have plans to be sitting on a patio somewhere tomorrow being served endless margs & guac, but there are many ways to incorporate the beautiful colors and flavors of Mexico into your own at-home celebration.

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Whether or not you plan on celebrating on the actual date, I love this theme for any May birthday, and did a 10th birthday party two years ago for a girl born on May 15th. We called it “Quince de Mayo” and had a fiesta at a farm!

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Cinco de Mayo, quite literally May 5th, celebrates the Mexican Army’s victory over the French Empire. It’s more popularly celebrated in the US than in Mexico and is associated with the celebration of Mexican-American culture. I love the lively colors and intricate details associated with Mexican decor, so it’s a dream palette to work with… and a menu you know everyone will love!

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This original fiesta was at a farm, but your deck, backyard, or driveway could be the perfect spot. I used my cousin’s large flat rear driveway because it reminded me of the town square’s in Mexico, and gathering for art fairs and street entertainers!

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My decor search was centered around Papel Picado, “perforated paper”, or beautiful paper banners made by cutting elaborate designs into tissue paper. I found mine on Etsy (linked below), but there are also tutorials online for how to make your own. If your party is going to be outside, be mindful of the delicate nature of tissue paper. Metallic paper or a thicker paper may fare better if it’s going to be a windy day! Even though I prefer the look of the tissue paper, I used a mixture of both, and if I was ordering again, I would also do a variety of sizes. I framed the party space with these banners to give it that town square feel!

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In lieu of live flowers, I taped paper flowers from an old garland to the table for an asymmetric centerpiece. This came about almost by mistake, they were just sitting on the table with other decor and I thought they looked kinda cute so arranged them in the center but could have lined an entire table with them!

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Cactus plates and napkins are a cute touch, although an odd shape! Would be perfect to eat some churros on!

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Mexican grocery stores often have an amazing selection of made fresh daily salsas and chips, the best hot sauces, and the perfect kid-loved drink (and adult mixer) for your fiesta…Juarritos! My favorite flavor is grapefruit, and my favorite sparkling water is also the Mexican Topo Chico!

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As for the menu, even the pickiest eaters tend to love Mexican food, and putting together a homemade menu of tacos, quesadillas or fajitas is pretty easy, or can be catered pretty affordably. Great sides include (of course) guac and chips, salsas, street corn salads or cobbs, red rice & beans. If you want to make something a little more playful, try walking tacos served right out of a Fritos individual size bag! One of my favorite guilty bites is Imperial in Ferndale, MI, and they serve gourmet bacon wrapped hot dogs with Mexican flare. We made these for a party and they were surprisingly easy and equally delicious!

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Mini cacti and succulents make for great decor and can double as a party favor when put in these El Pato salsa cans! Your local nursery/greenhouse is likely still open and offering curbside pickup. Just make sure you drill a little hole in the bottom of the can and line with small stones or charcoal to allow for proper drainage.

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Now of course, you’ve got to have a piñata! Use whatever candies you have on hand, or support a Mexican grocery store by purchasing a bulk bag of Mexican candies for a really authentic experience! Add some confetti to your Piñata for some extra flare when it’s finally cracked! You can often get a cutely decorated piñata bat or just use any hard stick you can find!

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A fun and easy craft that will make your fiesta pictures even cuter are Mexican flower crowns! You just need a bright colored headband, some faux flowers, and a hot glue gun. Just glue the flowers more centered towards the top to give it more of a Mexican style.

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The fake flowers for the crowns can double as your centerpiece, just have them sprawled along your table and the kids can pick from them when it’s time to do the craft!

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They’re pretty cute! You may want one for yourself…

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As always, please pay close attention to all CDC and governing guidelines to assure your fête is safe for all! If you try this party at home, please tag/hashtag @feteandfinery! I would love to see your pictures!

Items in stock and shipping within 1 week (as of 5/4/20):

Papel Picado (tissue)

Papel Picado (metallic, more durable in wind)

Jarritos (check your local mexican grocer)

Cactus Plates (different version)

Meri Meri Cactus Cupcake Toppers

Floral Chandelier

Fringe Umbrella Parasols

Mylar Pineapple Balloon

Cactus Piñata

Lime Piñata

Piñata Bat

We are in this fight against Coronavirus together, even though we are apart. Until it’s safe for us to gather & celebrate together in-person, there are still ways to make life’s many special moments and milestones special and uniquely yours. For more Party-in-Place free tutorials, click the images below:



Starring: Your Movie Birthday!

As an event planner, it was discouraging (but necessary) to see more and more events postponed or outright cancelled. During these unprecedented times, life is still happening around us, and there are moments and milestones that are still worth celebrating with you and your’s… maybe just differently than you original planned. I will be posting tutorials on past events I have done, and showing first how you can dream up a party you will host down the road when this is all behind us, and also modifications for how you can celebrate on a smaller scale with minimal supplies and still Party-In-Place (and style) during quarantine!

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I love movies and (pre-coronavirus) go almost weekly (AMC A-list member, humble brag), so a movie party at your local theatre is a pretty non-labor intensive way to celebrate a birthday. They often have private party rooms for you to congregate with your group before or after for gifts and cake. Some movie theaters allow you to do a special screening of an older movie no longer in theaters, so definitely inquire about that!

So to begin, your movie party needs to start with cute popcorn buckets, and I absolutely love these dollar tree reusable popcorn buckets that come in a 2-pack. Bonus- these fit perfectly in most movie theatre drink holders. These larger popcorn tubs add variety, are good for sharing, would make a unique cake stand substitute, or would serve a popcorn bar well.

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Next- funfetti birthday cake popcorn! This is super easy to make. Make your own popcorn or buy a very lightly salted microwaveable variety. Melt white chocolate (ghirardelli is my favorite baking chocolate), mix in a couple spoons of dry funfetti cake mix to your liking, coat your popcorn, top with your sprinkle of choice and mix it around! Tip- use a softer sprinkle or else your popcorn will be very crunchy. I bagged these in treat bags and put them in the Dollar Tree popcorn containers as take home favors.

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Make that funfetti popcorn work overtime on your Birthday cake: frost a cake white, and then clump fresh funfetti popcorn along the side while it is still a little warm. and congregate some at the top. This cake had a surprise sprinkle center which is always fun to cut into.

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Try popping your own popcorn from kernels! This is the foolproof small batch stovetop popcorn recipe I use. It tastes great and doesn’t have all the who-knows-what that’s in the microwaveable bags. It’s of course easier to use microwaveable popcorn, so don’t feel guilty about using those if you already have them on hand!

Social Distancing Modifications: Even though movie theaters aren’t an option at this time, staying in for a movie has always been a great time! With a few extra steps and some preparation, what may have become a routine time filler can be made into an extra special celebration. Amazon video and iTunes are early releasing in-theater movies to On-demand, but an all time favorite movie would also be a great option.

Quaranteeny Movie Party for your littles: First, create an in-home theatre! Basements are nice and dark, or it can be right in your living room. Pile up some quilts & throw pillows and make a cozy ground viewing area. Stack pillows on one end under the quilt to create plush “recliner seating” to lean against. Use chairs and make it like auditorium seating. Grab some red, purple or black blankets, tablecloths, or towels and make a theatre curtain backdrop using your chimney as a base, or make “theatre curtains” around your TV.

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Make a “Now Showing/Starring: [Name’s] Birthday!” marquee sign with a lightbox or markers… special shoutout/thank you to my 11-year-old niece for making me these signs with her lightup boxes AND styling AND shooting this pic for me! I’m so proud! :)

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Create a popcorn bar and fill treat bags with various popcorn flavors, seasonings, and toppings… make your popcorn exactly how you want it, which you may not be able to do in an actual movie theatre. Make salty sweet combos, add birthday sprinkles, add extra butter and gummy worms, go crazy.

Create popcorn holders out of tupperware by alternating red and white construction paper rectangles or download/print a popcorn container wrap off the internet.

Drinks: Make Coke Slushies in your blender out of ice tray pre-frozen coke cubes.

Serve Nachos with cheese sauce or order pizza from a local pizzeria that would really appreciate your business right now! Make a concession stand with those dollar boxed candies or make them as favors.

If you have the facilities to host a party in your yard with an outdoor projection screen, use various ride-on car’s or cardboard boxes + black take-out containers (for wheels) and make it a drive in movie party!

Quarantini Movie Party for Adults: Download the Netflix Party extension and watch a movie at the same time as your friends, as well as comment in a chat thread visible alongside your feature film! Make spiked jack + cherry coke slushi (Coke of your choice ice cubes + whiskey + extra ice + a maraschino cherry to garnish).

Here are some links for items you can order online to enhance your party:

In Stock as of 4/3/20 and shipping within 1 week:

Popcorn Buckets - Individual: This is a 20 pack, but it’s handy to have extras for group movies or having company (Dollar Tree is currently not shipping).

Large Popcorn Bucket: Vintage feel, rounded

Light-up Letter Box

Movie Night Chalkboard Sign

Movie Ticket/Invite: Instant download, print at home

Shipping 1+ week(s):

Movie Projector for iPhone: I have never used one of these, but I’m very curious! You could use this to project off any blank wall or for your outdoor movie nights on a white sheet/canvas!

Kernel Popcorn Butter Spray: Get your stopwatch, 0 calories for 1/3 second spray! You may be able to get this at your local grocery store via instacart. Coating with butter is sometimes messy and hard to evenly distribute so this may be a great alternative!

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Here are some creative photos I’ve found on Pinterest and elsewhere that showcase how other’s have done an at-home movie party (comment below for credits):

As always, please pay close attention to CDC & government regulations to ensure that your fête is safe for all!

We are in this fight against Coronavirus together, even though we are apart. Until it’s safe for us to gather & celebrate together in-person, there are still ways to make life’s many special moments and milestones special and uniquely yours. For more Party-in-Place free tutorials, click the images below: